He's Busy i tell ya....

Well just when u think everything is all good... its not! things may go ur way for a minute which makes u may feel like u can finally take a deep breathe & relax! Remember not for to long because somethings gonna come along to make those muscles tense again! Boy, thats the most annoying thing...

I had a few summer goals... one was to find a job asap! Which i did b4 i even got out of shool. Then my second was to have a car by end of summer. God blessed me with it b4 it even came close to end. Well a month into my job i was laid off because lack of work. But i didnt give up i continued to search for jobs. So i finally found one, a GOOD one at that, that i started a wk ago! I love it, its not like my old warehouse job which was aight but this is a govt position sitting at my own desk... woozers :) Still cant believe i landed this one! but anyways its kool and things were goin good....

UNTIL... i just found out i need sum new tires ASAP!! I travel a hr to get to work on the expressway and i absolutely cant drive my car until i do. Guess what work starts tom. @ aproximately 4:00pm! And not to mention my cell is off lol I dont get paid until Thursday! :( it jus seems like if its not one things is another all the freakin time! I cant Win for Losin!

But u know what im keepin the faith! this is just a little thunderstorm im about to pass thru! The devil is busy cuz he knows a blessing is comin my way! Trynna get me down.. no way jose, NOT gonna happen! SO ill be bloggin soon how i got thru this im sure and long with the other blessings ill be recieving!

P.s. times are hard for many but just remember that it can always be worst!

Too Picky Maybe...

What is a pretty girl like you doing single?....

I probably hear this question everyday! And my old answers to that question would be something that sounds good like.. "I havent found the right guy", "I dont know", "I dont have much luck when it comes to men", "There arent any good guys no more", blah blagh blah....

So i actually thought about it one day why i was really single? And i realized it was definitely by choice. Ive come across guys that were attractive/datable but yet never followed thru because it was something they didnt offer and they became "Just Friends".

By my friends, T've been told that im too picky. But i dont think that im too picky, i know what i like/want in the opposite so why should i have to settle for less. I was raised with morals/values/standards so i think that as a lot to do with it. I am realistic with those standards, im not waiting on a tyrese or trey songz to wipe me off my feet. I know that u have to compromise a little when in a relationship. But then again some things are just not compromisable lol (<----i know thats not a word)

Is it too much to want a guy that is doing something with his life. He doesnt have to be in school because school isnt for everyone. But u must be working a steady job not at home chillen. And being at home with moms is cool because im at home but dont be askin moms for gas money every time u leave home. Be goal oriented not complacent with where you are and want more out of life. U must, i mean MUST have a relationship with God & not saying u gotta be in church every Sunday. Someone that has personality and down to earth and intelligence doesn't hurt lol. I will absolutely NOT compromise with a D-boy. If u in the streets selling drugs or you a wanna be thug do not walk up to me. This is the number one turn off. Some girls like the Plies swag but the only thing i like about him is 1/3 of his music. I could go on about the D-boy but just know its not cool, pull your pants up and take that Tall-T down two sizes like Andre 3000 said! gahh so annoying lol but anyways as far as the physical goes, of course you have to look & dress Decent/Cute.

^^^ those are most of the standards, well at least the most important ones so if that makes me too picky oh well lol ill be single until i find someone that fits the criteria!

Giving away your 20's....

I was listening to Frank ski & Wanda morning show about marriages and what makes them work.... Frank said that he believes no one should give away their 20's meaning dont get tied down aka married during that time. He said that your 20's is when you should be experiencing life and having fun.

A male caller gave his opinion on what makes marriage work. He was so sure that his views were correct and was thinking about writing a book. The male is now on his 4th marriage and hes only 35 He feels this woman is the ONE. WOW... his 1st one was when he was 21, his 2nd marriage was at the age 24 and 3rd at 29. Just because this dude been married 4 times doesnt make him an expert but if u could have heard the things he was saying I'd call him an idiot lol.

Im starting to feel like Frank, not saying that you should hop from one person to the next! Theres nothing wrong with having a main boo ya know lol... But if you seriously think about it most people really aren't ready for marriage during this age (20's). Youre still growing up, learning, & living life. If you have a significant other u feel is the ONE take your time and make sure, there's No need to hurry and be hubby/wifey. If u dont make sure your just gonna contribute to this alarming high divorce rate these days!

Pressure to Date?

just curious to see what you guys think... i am guilty of this myself in the past im sure there are others that has felt the same way.....

Lets say you've been single for a while which you are pretty content with. You're kinda nonchalant about dating, its not really a big deal if you do or dont. Well thats until u think about it, u realize everybody and their mom has a man lol. Or u call up every girlfriend of yours one weekend to hang but they all are busy with the boyfriends/significant others. Some may invite you to tag along but being the 3rd wheel all the time isnt too fun! So you pass & u stay at home to do the usual.... NOTHING! lol or you could look thru your contacts to try find a potential guy friend to group date/chill so u could hang with your friends. But as u scroll down your not too excited or thrilled about the names you go by. Then U kinda begin to feel pressured to get back into the dating scene. As you think about it, Where do you start? you cant go back to ones youve dated before cuz theres a reason you guys arent dating now im sure! You're not suppose to just go looking for someone! And you dont wanna look obvious or desperate by askin guys out, thats what i think atleast! lol

So do you let the pressure die down eventually? Or Are you the type that lives up to the pressure and dates?

Updates, updates, updates....

So far this summer i haven't blogged in a while! mostly cuz i was workin pretty heavy and another is cuz im lazy! i've had plenty of stuff to write about but once i get on here i jus havent felt like typing about it! But here i am today with about 6 wks b4 i head back to EC campus in franklin springs, GA!

Anyways from the picas as you can see i FINALLY reached one of my goals!! I got a NEW car!!!!!! well not new but better than my old one hehe.... but i love it :)
its an eclipse, and honestly i used to love theses things when i was in like 8th grade. It feels so good to be able to finally jus get up and Go if i want. Not havin to worry about havin rides!!! So im sooo glad God has blessed me with a new car, i truelly thank him!




On a nother note a few weeks ago, i went with one of my home girls to a club called the velvet room. It was birthday bash wkend and this club was not our 1st option. We wanted to go to libra/esso but the wait and price was Re-Dunkulous! lol like 2hr wait and 40+ dollars! i dont club much & jus cuz it was bday bash dont mean im bout to pay 40 bucks for a club... wasnt happening !so we was like lets just go to the velvet room and call it a nite! so we go and jus make the best of it! well were just vibin and the DJ comes on & says MISS KERI BABY!! well keri walks thru to the vip! im like wow she so pretty! I LOVE keri, shes a new artist but i love her style/music! so she up there and im takin pics wit my phone like wow! lol i was pretty shocked then shes handin out free shots of patron! of course i get one... i was stooked! well if thats isnt enough, I get a VIP bracelt that she hands out to go chill in VIP!! OMG... dude im actually textin my mom at 1 o'clock in the am tell her keri gave me a shot of patron and im chillin in VIP!! she was u go girl lol!! but i had so much fun! We didnt expect to have as much fun as we did! but that situation jus reminds me no matter what jus make the best of some situations cuz u never know what might happen!

so im having a pretty decent summer so far!!! :)