Just Friends....

I now see from a males point of view of wanting to be just friends with a girl! No relationship, no sex, just kickin it here and there. Only friends, someone you mite hit up to go to the mall, movies, grab a bite to eat, or just watch tv or something. Before I thought girls couldnt be just friends with a guy without liking or wanting more out of friendship than there really is. Well now i see some dudes are the same way.

Its really annoying when you tell them you only want friendship and they're steady trying to get at you every chance they get. STOP it, espcially if you been tryin for a couple of years, Get the point it aint happening! Im JUST NOT INTO YOU, i mean your cool but just not boyfriend material. You dont want to be mean so you slowly stop the communication. Less texting, no phone calls, and maybe a facebook message once a month. After a while you'd think they get the point, when months later they hit with a messsage of hangin out. Ok kool, he just wants to hang, you know hes been talkin to other females and ive been datin! So youre nice and youve been friends for a while and you dont want be rude. You guys go to the mall and get something to eat then go your seperate ways. Youre like FINALLY... he gets it, & you hope theres another female in the picture lol. Well the texting gets back up to like every other day. He hasnt brought up the topic of you guys being together or dating!

Sike, well a month goes by and your at home chillen when a random text comes in. "Whats up baby, i just wanted to tell you how much im into you and that i be thinking about you all the time i dont know why. I been trynna get at you forever and i think right now would be a good time to give us a try!" DAMN!!! He doesnt get it after all! So your kinda fed up at this point and reply with your reasons which are legit of why you dont want a relationship right now or with him period. When your done hes like "Oh, ok! I feel ya well you dont have to worry about me bringin it up again." You feel like the world has been lifted off your shoulders.

I dont know why he thought between that time of less communication to now that it was gonna happen. Well you slowly bring him back down to earth..hehe and he said he understands! haha Not, Silly you! He texts you one day and wants to know if you want to go to a get together, its one of his boys! youre thinkin to yourself i better not go by myself so you ask if you can bring friends? hes like yeah sure! You guys get there and its nothing but his FAMILY! No, one our age 19-22 besides us. You meetin the family and stuff thinkin to yourself "thank God i didnt come by myself"! This Dude tried to set you up for the okie dokie! Your jus chillen when one family member ask which one of you pretty ladies is my nephew girlfriend. All eyes on you, you just want to drop down and die for a little while lol so you just smile and say "hes just my FRIEND!" the whole night there were wedding and girlfrien jokes. You were so embarrassed and pissed and ready to go but couldnt show it. So you leave thinkin this dude told his folk i was girl or maybe they jus know he like me and they were teasing him! Either way you dont care, you know he doesnt get it and you decide to stop the communication again! Theres no Hope of being JUST FRIENDS!!